Please read the following statement from Steven
Hassan on the issue of False Memory Syndrome and Repressed Memories:
One of the most controversial issues to hit the mental
health field concerns the phenomenon of people either falsely being
programmed to have false or confabulated memories (usually of childhood
sexual abuse), or legitimately recovering repressed memories of
abuse. I squarely believe that both phenomena can and do occur.
Therefore, I am sometimes attacked by both proponents of False Memory
Syndrome as well as by some of its critics.
If you are reading this and have come to believe
that you were a victim of child sexual abuse and have cut off contact
with your family and friends for many years, I implore you to make
the effort to get a second opinion from an expert who is not an
ideologue, but a trained therapist experienced with trauma issues.
If you are currently in therapy, your therapist should support your
desire to get a second opinion. If not, then there is reason to
be concerned. Get a referral for another therapist from someone
other than your therapist. Take a look at the credentials of the
individual (people) who were part of your process of "remembering",
and as objectively as possible try to see how directive they were.
Did they tell you in the first few sessions that they thought you
were an abuse victim by your symptoms? Did they quickly encourage
you to let them use hypnosis to go back and "remember"?
If so, there is a chance that the abuse never took place. It is
my understanding that most people remember childhood abuse, but
I am looking for any data that supports or refutes this proposition.
I come across cases of non-therapists "helping
people to remember." Some are involved with cult groups, some
are well meaning survivors of sexual abuse, some have ulterior motives.
If you are an adult who came to believe you were sexually abused
in recent years, I do believe there might be reason to reevaluate
how your memories came to your consciousness. It is entirely possible
that you were sexually abused. It is also possible that you were
not, but have believed that you were.
Of course, I also believe that trauma can cause people
to repress memories and that these memories can spontaneously surface,
or surface as a result of life experience and good therapy. The
bottom line as a therapist is helping clients live happy, fulfilling,
productive lives. If a person seeks treatment, and the person's
quality of life continues to worsen, it is time to reevaluate the
treatment orientation. I do not believe that a person needs to relive
trauma in order to be healed, and I believe such treatment orientations
can actually re-victimize the person. I do not believe that a person
needs to relive trauma in order to be healed, and I believe such
treatment orientations can actually revictimize the person. Of course,
if you suffer from PTSD
symptoms, or other problems relating to the abuse, then good
therapy will be of enormous help. I also do believe in therapeutic
forgetting, particularly if the danger is long since past. However,
it can be very upsetting if someone who has suffered abuse is told
to "forget about it." It can be a put down and a turn
off to invalidate personal suffering.
If you are no longer speaking with anyone from your
past because you were encouraged to cut off contact, I am concerned.
Rarely, if ever, do trained therapists (in the last few years) ever
encourage their clients to cut off contact with all of their family
and friends. They will encourage their client/patient to avoid putting
themselves into situations where they can be further abused - physically
as well as emotionally. This rarely includes everyone.
I welcome articles, testimonials, and resource links
that can help the public.
Creating
False Memories - Loftus, Elizabeth. Scientific American.
Sept. 1997. Note: Link is to page containing article summary;
whole article not available online.
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